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LKolmir
1. Unless something was outright defined between you and this person which defines any sort of relationship status outside of friends, you are setting yourself up for hurt and epic fail.
2. The fact that you are bringing this to the attention of Wowhead community shows that you already are reading too much into this friendship.
3. What this person does with their friend is not any concern of yours. Poke you nose in and it is going to get smacked.
4. Go ahead and assume that your friend and their friend are getting it on. You already suspect it so you might as well convince yourself it is true.
5. I doubt you are going to take any replies this thread to heart. You've made up your mind. You want this person and this thread is a formality on the way to inflicting heartache upon yourself. You just want us here for the show.
6. Once you blow things, go ahead and post a new thread with all the pathetic details so we can laugh. Heck you might as well line up a post for fmylife.com while your at it.
If you want a solution, I can provide one. It is a patent-pending process involving a sand filled wiffle bat and you skull. You'll forget all about the trivial wish-this-was-really-relationship blues.
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Post by
yawgmoth
Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date
But a year to make love she wanted you to wait
Let me tell ya a story of my situation
I was talkin' to this girl from the U.S. nation
The way that I met her was on tour at a concert
She had long hair and a short miniskirt
I just got onstage drippin', pourin' with sweat
I was walkin' through the crowd and guess who I met
I whispered in her ear, "Come to the picture booth
So I can ask you some questions to see if your hundred proof"
I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah
She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra
I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused
I said, "How do you like the show?"
she said, "I was very amused"
I started throwin' bass, she started throwin' back mid-range
But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange
Then when I asked, "Do ya have a man?" she tried to pretend
She said, "No I don't, I only have a friend"
Come on, I'm not even goin' for it
This is what I'm goin' sing
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend
So I took blah-blah's word for it at this time
I thought just havin' a friend couldn't be no crime
'Cause I have friends and that's a fact
Like Agnes, Agatha, Germaine, and Jacq
Forget about that, let's go into the story
About a girl named blah-blah-blah that adored me
So we started talkin', getttin' familiar
Spendin' a lot of time so we can build a
A relationship or some understanding
How it's gonna be in the future we was plannin'
Everything sounded so dandy and sweet
I had no idea I was in for a treat
After this was established, everything was cool
The tour was over and she went back to school
I called every day to see how she was doin'
Everytime that I called her it seemed somethin' was brewin'
I called her room, a guy picked up, and then I called again
I said, "Yo, who was that?" "Oh, he's just a friend"
Don't gimme that, don't even gimme that
Jus' bust this
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend
So I came to her college on a surprise visit
To see my girl that was so exquisite
It was a school day, I knew she was there
The first semester of the school year
I went to a gate to ask where was her dorm
This guy made me fill out a visitor's form
He told me where it was and I as on my way
To see my baby doll, I was happy to say
I arrrived in front of the dormitory
Yo, could you tell me where is door three?
They showed me where it was for the moment
I didn't know I was in for such an event
So I came to her room and opened the door
Oh, snap! Guess what I saw?
A fella tongue-kissin' my girl in the mouth,
I was so in shock my heart went down south
So please listen to the message that I send
Don't ever talk to a girl who says she just has a friend
Post by
ZerXonE
Yawgmoth, haven't heard that in a while. You made me smile this sunny morning^^
Post by
MsRed
dammit i keep seeing that commercial with the taxi driver singing that song lol
Post by
MissPrincess
It's a hard situation to be in,. As someone stated earlier, you didn't mention if there had been any defintion between the two of you that it WAS a relationship.
There's 3 things you can do:
1. Have it out, ask him what the deal is with you 2, whether your just good friends or whether he sees it the way you do. You never know, he might feel the same way but is too shy to say it, or he might not, theres only one way to find out & that is to be open with him & tell him you have feelings for him(This is the brave & right thing to do, it might come out good & he wants the same things, on the other hand it might rip your whole world apart, bt either way, you have to know so you can deal with it with him or move on for yourself)
2. Do nothing. Say f**k it, relegate yourself to seeing him as "the one who got away" & play the martyr the rest of your days. You',l complain constantly about how much you miss him, watch him from afar & all that stuff & you'll in time resent him for not being with you & resent yourself for being a coward & not telling him whats going on. (I really advise against this one, its the pussy's way out)
3. Ignore the whole situation, stay in your happy little bubble & still keep feeling the feelings but never acting on them, all the while he's possibly none the wiser & meets someone else. You'll then sink headfirst into depression blah bla blah. I agree with LKolmir theory. I think that's what you'll do. I HOPE you prove me wrong though, I hope you get your finger out & find ot whats up between the two of you.
Post by
Shamanic
Ditch wow, go meet in person, see if she feels the same way about you. Sort out a real relationship - even if it's long distance, as long as you do actually meet face to face sometimes. It's easy to connect on the internet, it's not so easy to connect in real life. You may get a reality check that you don't actually enjoy spending time with her one on one, for real - in which case, you're wasting your time worrying about an online relationship that will never work anyway.
Establish if you both click, and you both like each other, in person, first. Then worry about maintaining a long distance/online relationship. Save yourself a lot of time that way!
If neither of you actually want to meet or are willing to go the distance then it's not meant to be anyway and cut yourself off now and save some emotional pain.
Just because you see her as something more than a friend, doesn't mean the rest of the players do. Her friend is probably just that - a friend - someone she plays wow with. I have a lot of close friends on wow. Some of them I play on servers with that my husband isn't on. Some of them I've actually known as long, if not longer than my husband. Sometimes, I have private conversations with them that are none of my husbands business (usually them telling me about their love lifes!) and I can't say my husband has ever shown any concern, interest or jealousy because - gasp omg - being female and having a male friend does not have to be remotely related to sex or love. But you have to be in a relationship first for there to be trust and commitment, not just messing around on msn.
I'm not going to say meet someone in real life - you obviously like this girl, meet this girl in real life and sort out if you have a relationship with her to work on before you start worrying about it.
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FritzTheCat
(Biz Markee)
WIN
*feeds yawgmoth an artifact*
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Post by
Arcage
not sure I understood here...
If i did, I would say, dont chase ppl, if they want to spend time with you cool, if not let them leave.
Long distant relationships take either a very laxxed attitude, or a very trusting one.
I was 15000Km away from my wife before we we're married...it's hard..
little did i realise, being married is worse XD
Dont stress over humans they arent worth it.
/2centsfromgrumpyoldman
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Shamanic
I was 15000Km away from my wife before we we're married...it's hard..
Wow, what planet were you on? In case you didn't know the diameter of the Earth is 12742km, so you certainly couldn't have been on our fair planet.
Far out!
I LOLed. Do you know what a diameter is, as opposed to say... a circumfrence...
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